Raymond Delgado, 61 — Tucson, AZ, USA "I almost didn't buy this — I thought it was a women's program. Forty years I provided for everyone and felt nothing doing it. Solid, reliable, and completely walled off. My kids grew up with a father who was in the room but never really there. The day on the armor of the masculine put words to something I'd carried since I was a boy. I'm not soft now — I'm reachable. Last Sunday my son said, 'Dad, you're different, you actually listen.' I had to leave the table so he wouldn't see me cry. Thirty years too late, maybe. But not too late."